who is a wise husband?

who is a wise husband????


A wise husband is the one who knows what he
wants from a marriage. Does he want to add a
strong brick to the big building of this world?
Does he want to cooperate with his wife
on doing what is good and obeying Allah until they
both meet him? Does he realize the nobility of the
marriage institution and the goals of the marriage
, and that they require great sacrifices?



A wise husband is the one who gives more than he
receives. He is the one who dresses nicely for his
wife, and keeps himself clean just as he demands
from his wife that she beautify herself and dress
nicely for him. He is the one who realizes that his
wife is a human being just like him who likes to
see him handsome, clean, and smiling. He is the
one who distances himself from all that may annoy
his wife or makes her feel inferior. He is the one
who does not advise his wife in public or disgrace
her, especially in front of family and friends. He is
the one who does not criticize her in public at all.
He is the one who does not ridicule her
appearance if he does not like the way she is
dressing. He is the one who assists her in all ways
to reach her best. He is the one who gives advice in
a loving and compassionate manner. He is the one
who does not compare her to other women.


A wise husband is the one who tells his wife that he
does not imagine a more beautiful and ethical
women than her. The wise man is the one who
balances his love, and respect for his mother with
his love and devotion to his wife and his family.
Being a good son does not come by hurting his
wife, even for his mother. It comes through loving
his mother, and being a devout and religious man
in a manner that balances respect to both.



A wise husband is the one who enters home with a
smile on his face. He is the one who asks his wife
βhow was your day?β and makes sure things go
well with her and with the family. He is the one
who listens to her, and never makes her hear what
she does not want to hear. He is the one who
respects her and shows her how much she means to
him, and how important she is to his life privately
and publicly. He is the one who praises her, and
shows others how much he values her, respects
her, and loves her in front of his family, especially
if they do not like her or respects her. He is the one
who remembers his family in front of her in a nice
manner so she gets to love them, and reconcile
with them and knows the value of being a member
of a big family.


A wise husband is the one who reminds his wife
from time to time how much he loves her and
respects her, and shows her how much he
appreciates her beauty and morality